ABOUT THE BOOK
Life With Autism
“Life With Autism” is not a clinical guide on autism but a lived journey. David Bell’s story begins with survival: fragile days in an incubator, early health complications, and the uncertainty of a family already under strain. From those beginnings grew a life marked by challenges as emotional as they were physical.
The book moves through every stage of that journey. Childhood was shaped by autism that no one fully understood. The absence of a mother, he was told, had died, only to later discover she had not. The strain of stepfamily conflict colored his home life. The turbulence of adolescence, when rebellion became both an outlet and a burden. And the deep, sometimes painful questions of faith and identity that remained through the years.
Amid these trials, there are moments of humor and humanity: the daring escape on a tricycle at age two, the unlikely story of crossing paths with a future politician, the small flashes of connection that broke through loneliness. These lighter moments never erase the weight of struggle, but they remind us that even in the most challenging stories, there is still room for laughter and resilience.
This book offers a raw look at the hurdles one man has faced in some of the most challenging phases of his life. The author doesn’t sugarcoat or soften the truth; he puts the moments on the page as they were lived, whether carrying the weight of unexpected emotions or finding flashes of real, sometimes surprising humor. These honest glimpses, unfiltered and human, make the story resound.
This is a story about endurance: continuing when belonging feels out of reach, finding hope in unexpected places, and showing that being misunderstood does not mean being unseen. It is not a conventional success story but a story of survival, courage, and authenticity.
Chapters
Every story is beautiful, or at least that’s how it starts—with greatness. It is within that greatness that a story finds its foundation, a happy theme, and…
Then, there was the time at the Mormon church when I was about two years old. I was playing with my toy truck during the service. Apparently…
Every kid has a special childhood or memories that he holds tight and cherishes forever. Unfortunately for me, I never had that luxury. Since I was a little child…
I kept validating every bit of my emotions and feeling like I was a normal boy with typical teenage thoughts. Meanwhile, none of it was normal, and I was…
Any kind of change in the family dynamic can feel strange, like stepping into a world where the rules have suddenly shifted, and nothing is as it once was…
Unlike other guys my age, I was quite different when it came to lust or sex. The thing that fascinated most guys my age couldn’t pull me close with its magnetic…
In life, near-death experiences are the most dreadful ones. When you go through such incidents, your entire life flashes before your eyes, and you find yourself spiraling, wondering if you…
Comparing two objects is perfectly normal. In fact, it’s a daily occurrence for most people. Whether deciding what to wear for the day or choosing a restaurant for dinner, everyone…
Faith—it’s such a strange word. For some, it means everything: a guiding light in the darkest times. For others, it means nothing at all, just an empty concept devoid…
I was always a simple person, longing for love, care, and some attention. My heart craved connection, but instead, I was often played and fooled. I was lied to, conned…
Death is one of the most tragic parts of life. It leaves you wounded, bereft, and reeling in this lonely and cruel world. When you hear that someone couldn’t make it…
Remember how the world was in shambles when COVID-19 hit? Well, personally, I was aware of its existence since October of 2019 (note how it’s named COVID-19? Since it was discovered…
My early life was marked by challenges and a lack of understanding about my condition. Growing up, I faced a series of difficulties that were compounded by my delayed diagnosis and…
I’m faithful, and I like to think there’s no room for anyone or anything to completely shatter my beliefs at this point in life. This is a good thing because I…
My early life was marked by challenges and a lack of understanding about my condition. Growing up, I faced a series of difficulties that were compounded by my delayed diagnosis and…
You ever get to that point in life where you stop worrying and just start laughing at everything going wrong? That’s about where I’ve landed. I’m in my fifties now…
I woke up this morning and had one of those “lightbulb moments” you get once in a blue moon—usually when you’re lying in bed trying to figure out how things went…
When I was in eighth grade, life wasn't easy. I got tossed into garbage cans more times than I can count. Why? Because I had autism, and apparently, talking to…
When I had to appear in court, I knew I might need help. They wouldn’t let me write things down, so it was important to have an attorney or someone…
I lived in an apartment complex for disabled folks and seniors back in 1989 at 4460 44th Street, East San Diego. That place, at the time, was where people like…
Have you ever found yourself staring at scripture, feeling like the words are swimming around on the page? That was me—time and again. The letters looked familiar, but the meaning…
I’ve always been fascinated with politics, not because I wanted to be a politician but because I believed maybe, just maybe, there was a chance someone could actually make a…
Autism isn’t just something I live with—it’s something I view the world through. Think of it like a lens. Where most people see straightforward answers, I see angles, layers, and…
Voting has always been a strange experience for me. I remember the first time I went to the polls. Everyone seemed so sure of themselves, standing in line, chatting casually…
Systems are supposed to protect you. That’s what they say, at least. But when you’re autistic, disabled, or just plain different, those systems don’t feel built for you. They feel…
I used to dream of standing on a stage, clutching some kind of award, basking in the glow of applause. Sounds silly, maybe, but for me, it was about recognition…
The word “ally” gets thrown around a lot these days. Everyone wants to be called one, wear the badge, post the hashtag. But when it comes down to it, being…
Technology has always been both my savior and my stumbling block. On one hand, it’s opened doors I never thought possible. On the other, it’s been another place where autism…
Life has always felt like a rollercoaster for me—full of little highs and plenty of lows. Sometimes I think I’ve reached a place of balance, only to realize the ground…
Life With Autism
What would it feel like to see the world through someone else’s eyes, someone growing up misunderstood, carrying losses and unanswered questions, yet still finding moments of humor and connection? “Life With Autism” lets you step inside that life, raw and unfiltered, showing both the struggles and the quiet strength that comes from refusing to give up. It is messy, sometimes painful, often funny, and always deeply human.